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1. Know Thyself: What makes you tick? What drives you over the wall? What makes you smile? If you know yourself, you can start being aware of your state. The plan is to do something before the 'bad' state sets in. In other words, you should be so intimate with your being that you would 'feel' a temper arising, an impatience surfacing, before it is too late for you to take control.
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6. Before you accuse me of not being able to count, this is a freebie tip. An important one. Are you ready? Here goes: Laugh at yourself and your child from time to time. Based on my own personal experience, I affirm that you may find that one day, when your child is more of an adult and wiser, you will both laugh at it (unless you have fallen out with each other by then - this is a topic I will cover another time). For this article, it is the happy ending of your child who has finally grown up a little bit more, has gone through a few challenges in life as adult and finally sees what motives were driving 'mummy' and 'daddy'. You will both go back to memory lane and reminisce over the good, and not so good, times of old and laugh about them.
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